Check out Part I of my three part series on updated and fresh nursery color palettes. This month I wrote about and selected gender neutral colors. Visit this link at MyPerfectColor.com to read the full article and see chips of gorgeous Benjamin Moore paint colors.

I was just quoted as an "interior designer and etiquette expert" by writer Beth Engleman in an atricle on hostess gifts . Since its about to be the time of year when we celebrate with family and friends (nearly every weekend, it seems!)- I pulled together my go-to hostess gifts and created a layout with my favorites. Hostess gifts aren't meant to break the bank, but they should be tokens of thoughtful appreciation. When I say "thoughtful" appreciation- that means a selection should be made or personalized based on the host. Everyone has a favorite flower, color, varietal of wine, scent, etc. Simply take what you know about that person, (or what you can gather if you are the +1 who volunteered to bring a little something) and use that as your guide. As mentioned in the article- cash and/or gift cards are inappropriate and careless. Also, keep in mind that you were not invited because the host wants a gift from you- so don't go overboard. Just a little something to say "Thank You" will suffice. Its an extra layer of social grace that, when remembered, is never forgotten.

My Favorite Hostess Gifts

Scented Candles- okay, I admit it.  Candles are one of my favorite gifts in general. They are a nice and compact gift that the receiver can use just about anywhere. Also think about other items that go with candles, such as a Candle Snuffer. A snuffer is typically an item most people don't have- but once they have one, they love it.

You can never go wrong with a Bottle of Wine (unless, of course, the host and/or hostess do not partake in alcohol). Other items that go along with wine, such as a nice wine opener, a set of interesting wine stoppers, or a wine coaster and collar set would also make nice hostess gifts; however, not all at once (pick one!).

Flowers, glorious flowers. The only risk when bringing flowers is allergies- so please consider that. If there are no known allergies or you are willing to chance it- give away! I favor sending flowers before the event. This is a good way to do it so you, 1) don't forget, and, 2) don't have to risk possibly spilling water/pollen on yourself, in your car or in the taxi on the way. If you send them beforehand- you will definitely pleasantly surprise your host. Write a simple sentiment such as " Looking forward to dinner tomorrow". If its holiday time, you can may want to send a live wreath. Williams-Sonoma is my favorite source for live wreaths anytime of year.

My favorite type of dish to give is a platter. Go simple if you don't know the the host that well (think white porcelain) or find something really neat if you know the hostess's home style. My mom is a baker, and sometimes she will make what I like to call a "recipe kit". She will whip up a batch of her baked goodness (such as her signature petite lemon cakes with glaze.....yummm!), purchase a specific tool/pan that is needed in order to make the item and attach a handwritten recipe card. Its a hit- especially if you know the receiver loves your particular recipe for something. You could also put your signature item on a platter and attach the recipe card. My other favorite kitchen-related gift is an ice scoop. Its another item, like the candle snuffer, that people don't generally have, but love to use when they have one.

My last go-to item is a book. Everyone loves a book. It can be a "coffee table" book or a point of interest topic specific to the host (such as gardening, or vegetarian recipes, or a travel journal, etc.)

Lastly, keep a few sizes and colors of grosgrain ribbon, tulle, and sturdy boxes on hand, such as small hat boxes or quality gift boxes. You will never have to pick out wrapping paper or spend time trying to wrap an awkward shape. All you have to do is put a simple bow around your gift,  place your gift in a quality box with a simple ribbon around the box, or wrap your gift in tulle and tie a bow around the neck (works great with a bottle of wine). Stay away from curling ribbon, stick-on bows, generic gift bags and tissue paper. Keep it simple, yet elegant.

I have a new article up on MyPerfectColor.com highlighting Cozy Fall Colors. For some fall color inspiration, check it out here.

{This editorial went up on My Perfect Color last month, so if you are an avid follower of my brilliant writing (I realize that the sarcasism is not translating, so just in case its unlear- I'm being sarcastic), then you may enjoy this story about an interior designer on her wedding day (me!), and discovering the perfect peach paint...}

I would like to tell you the story of the perfect peach paint color. After Mr. Wonderful and I were married here in Southern California, we took off to Las Vegas for a stand-in honeymoon. You see, I requested Carpi, Italy- but since my husband was finishing his last year of his undergraduate accountancy degree, we couldn’t take the time to go international in October (the month of our wedding, of course). So, he booked us the next best thing to Italy in the United States- a suite at the Venetian in Las Vegas.

After the huge production that started at sunrise, a whirlwind of friends and family, a fantastic wedding and reception and a four hour car drive spent talking about our memorable day- you think I would have been too exhausted to think about interior design, right? Wrong. After checking in, the first thing I noticed when we got to our house-sized digs was the paint color in the bedroom. There I was, a young bride in a gorgeous hand-beaded gown, on my wedding night, basking in the glow of the peach paint- inspecting it, turning the lights off and on to see how the color changed, and marveling that I was falling in love with peach- of all colors!

I fell hard for what I like to call Venetian Peach. And that’s coming from a girl that grew up in the eighties, where the wrong shade of peach mixed with sea foam green left a sour impression on me. Not a day went by that I didn’t comment on the peach in the bedroom.

I started having all these sentimental fantasies that I would paint our bedroom in our first house this lovely shade of Venetian Peach- undoubted, I would have the best back-story to my (future) bedroom paint color. It got to the point where Mr. Wonderful told me I should just ask the concierge if they could tell me the color so I could forget about it.

During that stay, I decided that peach was the most flattering color for a bedroom. Its not pink and its not boring beige. Its sort of gender neutral, at least its more gender neutral than pink would be. Most importantly, it just makes everything glow. Peach really works magic on skin tones. And the light in a peach room is warm, lovely and soft.

I made up my mind that I would schmooze with the concierge before we left. The Venetian is a world-class hotel- I was sure they would find me the paint color if I asked. Mr.Wonderful said only I would do this, and on our honeymoon, to boot! Imagine our serendipitous timing when we checked out a few hours earlier than normal on our last day…the painters were in the suite next door! I couldn’t help but think it was meant to be! I poked my head in and coyly asked if they could tell me the paint color.

One of the painters literally stopped what he was doing and trotted over to the paint bucket. It was unmarked (well- the brand was marked, but that’s it!). He told me he was sorry, the color was not listed. Then, as if a light bulb went off in his head, he ran over to his spraying shield (a piece of card board box) and cut off part of the board. He then made me a paint swatch out of the paint! I just about died. Here, in my hand, I had the most beautiful paint color in the world. I couldn’t believe he did this for me- I was just giddy. All the while, Mr. Wonderful just stood there- holding our bags, shaking his head with a half-smile in disbelief, “Is my wife really doing this right now?”.

So, that is the story of the perfect peach paint color. The photo above is the actual sample (and, in case anyone is interested, that is a Patterson, Flynn + Martin rug, "Cite Rings" in Ivory- I LOVE Patterson, Flynn + Martin rugs!). And now, as your reward for reading this story, here are the best matching Benjamin Moore equivalents to my keepsake paint swatch:

Winter Melon 093

Delicate Peach 120

Florida Seashells 128

Typically, I am not a DIY enthusiast. I have my reasons, and I feel they are very sound. I'm not a huge fan of encouraging DIY because:

1. I am unsure of another person's ability for craftsmanship and detail. I don't want to tell someone they can easily do something on their own to have it blow up in their face and then blame me for telling them it would be easy. "Easy" is relative.

2. I am usually not a fan of the look of a DIY project, even when its executed well. Often times, DIY walks the "crafty" line; however, this can be avoided by picking and choosing which DIY projects should be attempted.

3. Sometimes, some things are better left to the pro who does that one thing over and over and over. They know how to get the job done in less time, with less wasted materials and they may even know of some ways to improve upon the process after years of doing that one thing. A pro has little to no learning curve.

That being said....I recommend *certain* DIY projects to *certain* people. If you have great (not good, but great) eye for detail, you know how to use basic power tools, you know how measure and level, you know how to follow instructions and improvise soundly, you know what I'm talking about when I say something is "crafty" (in order to tell the difference, you must know what you are comparing something to), and you are willing to do some basic research and buy the proper materials required...then I think you are okay to tackle a DIY project.

Also, note that there are different levels of DIY. There is easy and there is advanced. Learn to evaluate your skill level before starting a project.

With that "disclaimer" statement, I realize that a lot of people interested in interior design are very creative. A lot of you are hands-on and have a certain eye and aptitude, if not for design itself- then at least for what "looks good". If this sounds like you- I give you my full support in attempting DIY projects.

As a designer, I do DIY projects all the time. My home is my laboratory. I make something to see a mock-up or just to try something new. I'm less nervous about the outcome than the average person because I know pretty much anything can be fixed and I also know that if it doesn't work out- I can toss it and I am happy knowing I tried it on me first, rather than a client's project. These things range from picture arrangements, to moulding details, framing ideas, refinishing applications, trimming out a lamp shade...usually pretty small details. Occasionally I will venture into the land of sewing something up (maybe an idea I would like to hash out before I hire a workroom to do it, or to make use of an amazing upholstery remnant or something. My past as a fashion designer greatly aids my ability in doing this), or a small upholstered piece- such as a headboard or reupholstering a dining room chair seat. Nothing too crazy (in other words- I hire the tile guy when I want to switch out my back splash. Even I,as fearless as I am, know my limits!).

It would be hypricitical and sorta snotty of me to say that everyone should avoid DIY. So, I am partially making a case for it (if you qualify) because DIY can be pretty fun, not to mention fulfilling. There is something about knowing you made something with your hands that's pretty dang cool. And, its even better when someone compliments your DIY and you can say you made it...it must be what Martha Stewart feels like on a regular basis.

I am going to start trying to add some good DIY projects to {Maison Classique}. Keep your eye out! (Or, subscribe- its easier!). Everything will have directions, photos, a tools and supply list and pointers. I think this could be a fun regular feature- please contribute if you have a great DIY project, I would love to hear from you and feature your savvy skills on {Maison Classique}!

(Photo from Nationaal Archief's Flickr)

Please see this for the back-story to this post. To see No.1 go here. To see No. 2 go here.

No. 3: A Great Quality Rug

A great rug is an investment and its something you will have forever. I recommend wool or sisal for your first rug purchase. I also recommend getting it for the main living area in which you spend the most time (be sure to get the proper size- don't put too small a rug in a large room, or vice versa). Wool is very durable, cleans well and will look beautiful as long as you live- if given proper care. Some designers and clients like nylon, because nylon is also durable and its very budget friendly- so there are other options if you aren't that discriminating. Also, don't forget to get a pad and liner! It really does help maintain and extend the life of a rug or carpet, and your flooring (especially wood floors).

For your first "investment" rug, don't worry about matching it to something, but consider using it as a base for your color palette. You can go neutral, or go with a classic or transitional pattern (stay away from the very contemporary and mod patterns, they will be out with last year's fashion)- don't stress too much. When it comes time to move the rug to a new location, you can be like the Europeans and juxtapose old with new for that quirky, a bit mis-matched, "passed down becase its fabulous" look.

Photo from Stark

Please see this for the back-story to this post. To see No. 1, go here.

No. 2: Wall Sconces

Lamps are things you can change out on a whim. Wall mounted sconces are harder, and more expensive, to install. Once installed, you can get them changed out relatively easily. Make the initial investment to get sconces installed. Choose your wall sconces and their location wisely and just go for it. Put them on dimmers. And put them up asap!

The light quality from sconces is great. I am a fan of interior lighting not coming from above. Of course wall washers and spotlights have their place- but the lighting that makes one feel cozy and look beautiful comes from indirect sources- wall mounted fixtures and lamps. Also, overhead lighting really clutters up the ceiling plane and can make a residential space look commercial. Other than the kitchen and select areas in the bathroom, forgo the overhead recessed lighting.

Great places for wall sconces include the foyer, flanking art or a large mirror in any room, flanking or installed on a media build-out or built-in, placed high on the walls in hallways, flanking the bed as task lights for reading, flanking the vanity mirror in the bathroom, and picture lights placed above your art. A guideline for the size of a picture light is half the size of the art, placed at the center line of the piece, above the frame. If lighting a really large piece of art, recessed fixtures are the solution. If lighting a really, really important piece or collection of art that is museum quality- I, as a designer, would consult a specialty lighting designer for proper fixtures so as not to damage the art overtime (I recommend you do this if this sounds like your situation).

Start with one set of swing arm sconces in the bedroom and one set of sconces in a main living area. Add them to hallways and other rooms as you can. Have art lights installed over your most important and favorite art, then add them to each piece as you acquire and grow your collection.

(Wall sconce is from Circa Lighting, picture light photo is from a site I can't find again on the internet. If this isy our photo, let me know so I can give proper credit and link to you.)

I am stating the eleven-part editorial feature on The List of the top ten things to invest in when starting your interiors in a new place (whether you are paying rent to the bank or the landlord) or a new stage in life. See this post for the full preface. I would also like to state that, even though I am listing these one through ten, some of them are equally important. Its best to think of all ten as items of A-1 importance.

No. 1: Good Bones

Everyone says this...but what does it really mean? I will speak for classic designers everywhere and say that good bones means great architectural features. Great architectural features include baseboards, crown mouldings, an interesting ceiling treatment (such as beams or coffers), wainscot paneling or bead board, chair rails, framed-out passages, wall niches, great banister and balustrades, tread caps, window casings, door casings, great fireplace mantles, good cabinetry...pretty much all the woodwork and trimming. Also included in "good bones" are good windows, quality doors, good flooring (natural stone or wood plank), good counters in non-dated materials, etc. Things that qualify as bones are permanent and attached and require demolition of some sort to remove.

Good Bones means that you don't have to invest or address the envelope much (or at all) before you start to fill the room with fabulous things. If these foundational "good bones" elements are absent, need repair, or need replacing/restoration due to an outdated style or finish, then you need to put some of your budget here before anything else. When I start a project, if the home already has great architectural features- it saves the client a lot of money because that layer of design is already taken care of. Do it first thing.

If you are a homewoner- go for the whole nine yards. I am a self procliamed "trim junkie"- so you really can't overdo it. The style of what you are doing should coincide with your architecture (for example- don't do Arts and Crafts details in a Federalist style home). Invest in really great, high quality base boards and crown moulding. You can always add wainscotting and an architectural ceiling later. Also keep in mind that good and appropriate architectural features increase the value of a home and help it sell faster.

If you are renting, and you have moulidngs (as typical in older buildings on the east coast, mid-west and other major cities of the west- such as Denver, for instance), put in the elbow grease to renovate them. If there are no moulidngs (as typical in "newer" buildings here on the west coast where building is all about making it cheap and fast and selling it at a premium), decide how long you will be in the space. If its over two or three years, go for a few upgrades- base and crown, for sure. Ask your landlord if they would be willing to match your improvements, you would be surprised how many landlords would agree. At the very least, paint. And paint the entire place- make it home. If your rental has those old acoustic "pop corn" ceilings- that's a great thing to match your landlord on. Get them professionally scraped and re-textured. Apartments and condos only need a few upgrades to become a "wow" space- and they are generally a lot smaller than a house, so your dollar really goes far and covers a lot of ground.

Just because you don't own your rental doesn't mean you can't take pride in where and how you live. The years you spend renting are years of your life that you won't suddenly get back when you decided to carry a mortgage one day. Good design knows not if you rent from the bank or the landlord.

When starting out- whether it be your first apartment, your first house, or your first "grown-up" space of your own after parting with the roommate phase of life...you have to start somewhere. And you have to ditch all that Ikea furniture you thought was so great in college. (As a side note, I am not bashing Ikea- but I firmly believe there is a place and time in which an individual should grow-out of their Ikea furnishings...all of them!).

Deciding where to start and where to spend that first chunk of money can sometimes be paralyzing. And sometimes, despite best intentions, you may be tempted to spring for the Louis Ghost Chair when what you really need is a good sofa that will take you well into your next phase of life (don't worry- fun things like the ghost of Louis can and will come later!).

I decided to make an entire editorial feature out of a comment I left on another design blog (I won't tell you which one, since I will be doing this post in 11 installments, and I intend on keeping you in suspense!). The post was in response to how much love one should give a rental. (All you design blog junkies, I'm sure you know which blog I'm referring to!).  After posting, I realized that the starting points are the same, regardless of the space you are filling. This list of ten will start you out on the right track for developing your style and will lay the foundation for great design in your home. From this foundation, you can layer and develop your style. When you hire an interior designer for the first time, they will have great pieces to work with and commend you for sound and savvy choices.

Stay tuned for #1!

*This photo comes from my personal collection of mag tears since I was a teenager. If you are the designer or photographer- let me know so I can give you proper credit!

I have another front page article published on AvaLiving, "Green for Everyone...Not Just the Modern Folks!". Check it out.