Check out Part I of my three part series on updated and fresh nursery color palettes. This month I wrote about and selected gender neutral colors. Visit this link at MyPerfectColor.com to read the full article and see chips of gorgeous Benjamin Moore paint colors.

I was just quoted as an "interior designer and etiquette expert" by writer Beth Engleman in an atricle on hostess gifts . Since its about to be the time of year when we celebrate with family and friends (nearly every weekend, it seems!)- I pulled together my go-to hostess gifts and created a layout with my favorites. Hostess gifts aren't meant to break the bank, but they should be tokens of thoughtful appreciation. When I say "thoughtful" appreciation- that means a selection should be made or personalized based on the host. Everyone has a favorite flower, color, varietal of wine, scent, etc. Simply take what you know about that person, (or what you can gather if you are the +1 who volunteered to bring a little something) and use that as your guide. As mentioned in the article- cash and/or gift cards are inappropriate and careless. Also, keep in mind that you were not invited because the host wants a gift from you- so don't go overboard. Just a little something to say "Thank You" will suffice. Its an extra layer of social grace that, when remembered, is never forgotten.

My Favorite Hostess Gifts

Scented Candles- okay, I admit it.  Candles are one of my favorite gifts in general. They are a nice and compact gift that the receiver can use just about anywhere. Also think about other items that go with candles, such as a Candle Snuffer. A snuffer is typically an item most people don't have- but once they have one, they love it.

You can never go wrong with a Bottle of Wine (unless, of course, the host and/or hostess do not partake in alcohol). Other items that go along with wine, such as a nice wine opener, a set of interesting wine stoppers, or a wine coaster and collar set would also make nice hostess gifts; however, not all at once (pick one!).

Flowers, glorious flowers. The only risk when bringing flowers is allergies- so please consider that. If there are no known allergies or you are willing to chance it- give away! I favor sending flowers before the event. This is a good way to do it so you, 1) don't forget, and, 2) don't have to risk possibly spilling water/pollen on yourself, in your car or in the taxi on the way. If you send them beforehand- you will definitely pleasantly surprise your host. Write a simple sentiment such as " Looking forward to dinner tomorrow". If its holiday time, you can may want to send a live wreath. Williams-Sonoma is my favorite source for live wreaths anytime of year.

My favorite type of dish to give is a platter. Go simple if you don't know the the host that well (think white porcelain) or find something really neat if you know the hostess's home style. My mom is a baker, and sometimes she will make what I like to call a "recipe kit". She will whip up a batch of her baked goodness (such as her signature petite lemon cakes with glaze.....yummm!), purchase a specific tool/pan that is needed in order to make the item and attach a handwritten recipe card. Its a hit- especially if you know the receiver loves your particular recipe for something. You could also put your signature item on a platter and attach the recipe card. My other favorite kitchen-related gift is an ice scoop. Its another item, like the candle snuffer, that people don't generally have, but love to use when they have one.

My last go-to item is a book. Everyone loves a book. It can be a "coffee table" book or a point of interest topic specific to the host (such as gardening, or vegetarian recipes, or a travel journal, etc.)

Lastly, keep a few sizes and colors of grosgrain ribbon, tulle, and sturdy boxes on hand, such as small hat boxes or quality gift boxes. You will never have to pick out wrapping paper or spend time trying to wrap an awkward shape. All you have to do is put a simple bow around your gift,  place your gift in a quality box with a simple ribbon around the box, or wrap your gift in tulle and tie a bow around the neck (works great with a bottle of wine). Stay away from curling ribbon, stick-on bows, generic gift bags and tissue paper. Keep it simple, yet elegant.

I have a new article up on MyPerfectColor.com highlighting Cozy Fall Colors. For some fall color inspiration, check it out here.

{This editorial went up on My Perfect Color last month, so if you are an avid follower of my brilliant writing (I realize that the sarcasism is not translating, so just in case its unlear- I'm being sarcastic), then you may enjoy this story about an interior designer on her wedding day (me!), and discovering the perfect peach paint...}

I would like to tell you the story of the perfect peach paint color. After Mr. Wonderful and I were married here in Southern California, we took off to Las Vegas for a stand-in honeymoon. You see, I requested Carpi, Italy- but since my husband was finishing his last year of his undergraduate accountancy degree, we couldn’t take the time to go international in October (the month of our wedding, of course). So, he booked us the next best thing to Italy in the United States- a suite at the Venetian in Las Vegas.

After the huge production that started at sunrise, a whirlwind of friends and family, a fantastic wedding and reception and a four hour car drive spent talking about our memorable day- you think I would have been too exhausted to think about interior design, right? Wrong. After checking in, the first thing I noticed when we got to our house-sized digs was the paint color in the bedroom. There I was, a young bride in a gorgeous hand-beaded gown, on my wedding night, basking in the glow of the peach paint- inspecting it, turning the lights off and on to see how the color changed, and marveling that I was falling in love with peach- of all colors!

I fell hard for what I like to call Venetian Peach. And that’s coming from a girl that grew up in the eighties, where the wrong shade of peach mixed with sea foam green left a sour impression on me. Not a day went by that I didn’t comment on the peach in the bedroom.

I started having all these sentimental fantasies that I would paint our bedroom in our first house this lovely shade of Venetian Peach- undoubted, I would have the best back-story to my (future) bedroom paint color. It got to the point where Mr. Wonderful told me I should just ask the concierge if they could tell me the color so I could forget about it.

During that stay, I decided that peach was the most flattering color for a bedroom. Its not pink and its not boring beige. Its sort of gender neutral, at least its more gender neutral than pink would be. Most importantly, it just makes everything glow. Peach really works magic on skin tones. And the light in a peach room is warm, lovely and soft.

I made up my mind that I would schmooze with the concierge before we left. The Venetian is a world-class hotel- I was sure they would find me the paint color if I asked. Mr.Wonderful said only I would do this, and on our honeymoon, to boot! Imagine our serendipitous timing when we checked out a few hours earlier than normal on our last day…the painters were in the suite next door! I couldn’t help but think it was meant to be! I poked my head in and coyly asked if they could tell me the paint color.

One of the painters literally stopped what he was doing and trotted over to the paint bucket. It was unmarked (well- the brand was marked, but that’s it!). He told me he was sorry, the color was not listed. Then, as if a light bulb went off in his head, he ran over to his spraying shield (a piece of card board box) and cut off part of the board. He then made me a paint swatch out of the paint! I just about died. Here, in my hand, I had the most beautiful paint color in the world. I couldn’t believe he did this for me- I was just giddy. All the while, Mr. Wonderful just stood there- holding our bags, shaking his head with a half-smile in disbelief, “Is my wife really doing this right now?”.

So, that is the story of the perfect peach paint color. The photo above is the actual sample (and, in case anyone is interested, that is a Patterson, Flynn + Martin rug, "Cite Rings" in Ivory- I LOVE Patterson, Flynn + Martin rugs!). And now, as your reward for reading this story, here are the best matching Benjamin Moore equivalents to my keepsake paint swatch:

Winter Melon 093

Delicate Peach 120

Florida Seashells 128

Typically, I am not a DIY enthusiast. I have my reasons, and I feel they are very sound. I'm not a huge fan of encouraging DIY because:

1. I am unsure of another person's ability for craftsmanship and detail. I don't want to tell someone they can easily do something on their own to have it blow up in their face and then blame me for telling them it would be easy. "Easy" is relative.

2. I am usually not a fan of the look of a DIY project, even when its executed well. Often times, DIY walks the "crafty" line; however, this can be avoided by picking and choosing which DIY projects should be attempted.

3. Sometimes, some things are better left to the pro who does that one thing over and over and over. They know how to get the job done in less time, with less wasted materials and they may even know of some ways to improve upon the process after years of doing that one thing. A pro has little to no learning curve.

That being said....I recommend *certain* DIY projects to *certain* people. If you have great (not good, but great) eye for detail, you know how to use basic power tools, you know how measure and level, you know how to follow instructions and improvise soundly, you know what I'm talking about when I say something is "crafty" (in order to tell the difference, you must know what you are comparing something to), and you are willing to do some basic research and buy the proper materials required...then I think you are okay to tackle a DIY project.

Also, note that there are different levels of DIY. There is easy and there is advanced. Learn to evaluate your skill level before starting a project.

With that "disclaimer" statement, I realize that a lot of people interested in interior design are very creative. A lot of you are hands-on and have a certain eye and aptitude, if not for design itself- then at least for what "looks good". If this sounds like you- I give you my full support in attempting DIY projects.

As a designer, I do DIY projects all the time. My home is my laboratory. I make something to see a mock-up or just to try something new. I'm less nervous about the outcome than the average person because I know pretty much anything can be fixed and I also know that if it doesn't work out- I can toss it and I am happy knowing I tried it on me first, rather than a client's project. These things range from picture arrangements, to moulding details, framing ideas, refinishing applications, trimming out a lamp shade...usually pretty small details. Occasionally I will venture into the land of sewing something up (maybe an idea I would like to hash out before I hire a workroom to do it, or to make use of an amazing upholstery remnant or something. My past as a fashion designer greatly aids my ability in doing this), or a small upholstered piece- such as a headboard or reupholstering a dining room chair seat. Nothing too crazy (in other words- I hire the tile guy when I want to switch out my back splash. Even I,as fearless as I am, know my limits!).

It would be hypricitical and sorta snotty of me to say that everyone should avoid DIY. So, I am partially making a case for it (if you qualify) because DIY can be pretty fun, not to mention fulfilling. There is something about knowing you made something with your hands that's pretty dang cool. And, its even better when someone compliments your DIY and you can say you made it...it must be what Martha Stewart feels like on a regular basis.

I am going to start trying to add some good DIY projects to {Maison Classique}. Keep your eye out! (Or, subscribe- its easier!). Everything will have directions, photos, a tools and supply list and pointers. I think this could be a fun regular feature- please contribute if you have a great DIY project, I would love to hear from you and feature your savvy skills on {Maison Classique}!

(Photo from Nationaal Archief's Flickr)

Please see this for the back-story to this post. To see No.1 go here. To see No. 2 go here.

No. 3: A Great Quality Rug

A great rug is an investment and its something you will have forever. I recommend wool or sisal for your first rug purchase. I also recommend getting it for the main living area in which you spend the most time (be sure to get the proper size- don't put too small a rug in a large room, or vice versa). Wool is very durable, cleans well and will look beautiful as long as you live- if given proper care. Some designers and clients like nylon, because nylon is also durable and its very budget friendly- so there are other options if you aren't that discriminating. Also, don't forget to get a pad and liner! It really does help maintain and extend the life of a rug or carpet, and your flooring (especially wood floors).

For your first "investment" rug, don't worry about matching it to something, but consider using it as a base for your color palette. You can go neutral, or go with a classic or transitional pattern (stay away from the very contemporary and mod patterns, they will be out with last year's fashion)- don't stress too much. When it comes time to move the rug to a new location, you can be like the Europeans and juxtapose old with new for that quirky, a bit mis-matched, "passed down becase its fabulous" look.

Photo from Stark

Please see this for the back-story to this post. To see No. 1, go here.

No. 2: Wall Sconces

Lamps are things you can change out on a whim. Wall mounted sconces are harder, and more expensive, to install. Once installed, you can get them changed out relatively easily. Make the initial investment to get sconces installed. Choose your wall sconces and their location wisely and just go for it. Put them on dimmers. And put them up asap!

The light quality from sconces is great. I am a fan of interior lighting not coming from above. Of course wall washers and spotlights have their place- but the lighting that makes one feel cozy and look beautiful comes from indirect sources- wall mounted fixtures and lamps. Also, overhead lighting really clutters up the ceiling plane and can make a residential space look commercial. Other than the kitchen and select areas in the bathroom, forgo the overhead recessed lighting.

Great places for wall sconces include the foyer, flanking art or a large mirror in any room, flanking or installed on a media build-out or built-in, placed high on the walls in hallways, flanking the bed as task lights for reading, flanking the vanity mirror in the bathroom, and picture lights placed above your art. A guideline for the size of a picture light is half the size of the art, placed at the center line of the piece, above the frame. If lighting a really large piece of art, recessed fixtures are the solution. If lighting a really, really important piece or collection of art that is museum quality- I, as a designer, would consult a specialty lighting designer for proper fixtures so as not to damage the art overtime (I recommend you do this if this sounds like your situation).

Start with one set of swing arm sconces in the bedroom and one set of sconces in a main living area. Add them to hallways and other rooms as you can. Have art lights installed over your most important and favorite art, then add them to each piece as you acquire and grow your collection.

(Wall sconce is from Circa Lighting, picture light photo is from a site I can't find again on the internet. If this isy our photo, let me know so I can give proper credit and link to you.)

I am stating the eleven-part editorial feature on The List of the top ten things to invest in when starting your interiors in a new place (whether you are paying rent to the bank or the landlord) or a new stage in life. See this post for the full preface. I would also like to state that, even though I am listing these one through ten, some of them are equally important. Its best to think of all ten as items of A-1 importance.

No. 1: Good Bones

Everyone says this...but what does it really mean? I will speak for classic designers everywhere and say that good bones means great architectural features. Great architectural features include baseboards, crown mouldings, an interesting ceiling treatment (such as beams or coffers), wainscot paneling or bead board, chair rails, framed-out passages, wall niches, great banister and balustrades, tread caps, window casings, door casings, great fireplace mantles, good cabinetry...pretty much all the woodwork and trimming. Also included in "good bones" are good windows, quality doors, good flooring (natural stone or wood plank), good counters in non-dated materials, etc. Things that qualify as bones are permanent and attached and require demolition of some sort to remove.

Good Bones means that you don't have to invest or address the envelope much (or at all) before you start to fill the room with fabulous things. If these foundational "good bones" elements are absent, need repair, or need replacing/restoration due to an outdated style or finish, then you need to put some of your budget here before anything else. When I start a project, if the home already has great architectural features- it saves the client a lot of money because that layer of design is already taken care of. Do it first thing.

If you are a homewoner- go for the whole nine yards. I am a self procliamed "trim junkie"- so you really can't overdo it. The style of what you are doing should coincide with your architecture (for example- don't do Arts and Crafts details in a Federalist style home). Invest in really great, high quality base boards and crown moulding. You can always add wainscotting and an architectural ceiling later. Also keep in mind that good and appropriate architectural features increase the value of a home and help it sell faster.

If you are renting, and you have moulidngs (as typical in older buildings on the east coast, mid-west and other major cities of the west- such as Denver, for instance), put in the elbow grease to renovate them. If there are no moulidngs (as typical in "newer" buildings here on the west coast where building is all about making it cheap and fast and selling it at a premium), decide how long you will be in the space. If its over two or three years, go for a few upgrades- base and crown, for sure. Ask your landlord if they would be willing to match your improvements, you would be surprised how many landlords would agree. At the very least, paint. And paint the entire place- make it home. If your rental has those old acoustic "pop corn" ceilings- that's a great thing to match your landlord on. Get them professionally scraped and re-textured. Apartments and condos only need a few upgrades to become a "wow" space- and they are generally a lot smaller than a house, so your dollar really goes far and covers a lot of ground.

Just because you don't own your rental doesn't mean you can't take pride in where and how you live. The years you spend renting are years of your life that you won't suddenly get back when you decided to carry a mortgage one day. Good design knows not if you rent from the bank or the landlord.

When starting out- whether it be your first apartment, your first house, or your first "grown-up" space of your own after parting with the roommate phase of life...you have to start somewhere. And you have to ditch all that Ikea furniture you thought was so great in college. (As a side note, I am not bashing Ikea- but I firmly believe there is a place and time in which an individual should grow-out of their Ikea furnishings...all of them!).

Deciding where to start and where to spend that first chunk of money can sometimes be paralyzing. And sometimes, despite best intentions, you may be tempted to spring for the Louis Ghost Chair when what you really need is a good sofa that will take you well into your next phase of life (don't worry- fun things like the ghost of Louis can and will come later!).

I decided to make an entire editorial feature out of a comment I left on another design blog (I won't tell you which one, since I will be doing this post in 11 installments, and I intend on keeping you in suspense!). The post was in response to how much love one should give a rental. (All you design blog junkies, I'm sure you know which blog I'm referring to!).  After posting, I realized that the starting points are the same, regardless of the space you are filling. This list of ten will start you out on the right track for developing your style and will lay the foundation for great design in your home. From this foundation, you can layer and develop your style. When you hire an interior designer for the first time, they will have great pieces to work with and commend you for sound and savvy choices.

Stay tuned for #1!

*This photo comes from my personal collection of mag tears since I was a teenager. If you are the designer or photographer- let me know so I can give you proper credit!

I have another front page article published on AvaLiving, "Green for Everyone...Not Just the Modern Folks!". Check it out.

I have an article published on the front page of Ava Living. Check it out.

{As featured on Ava Living!}

I find that there are a few essential accessories that any room, regardless of style, can use as part of a total look. The top accessory? A Tray. Not only do trays look nice, they function well, too!

Trays unify and organize. They provide an opportunity to bring in an accent material, color and/or finish. Throw a tray under just about anything or a group of somethings, and it immediately looks pulled together and "finished".

As a guideline when shopping, the things to remember are the following: 1) there are many different sizes and shapes of trays (large, small, long, square, circular), and scale should be a consideration; 2) trays are made of all sorts of materials such as bamboo, silver, acrylic, copper, wood, porcelain, leather, stainless steel...the options are endless! Choose a material that will live in harmony with your interior and provide a subtle accent.

Ten ways to use a tray throughout the home:

1- Place a tray on the entry or hall table. Phone, keys, wallet, planner, mail....let the tray be the dumping ground. The tray prevents "clutter spread" by concentrating it all in one place. Plus, a tray in this location saves you time- since you know where you left your keys.

2- Place a small tray under meal necessities. Items such as the salt and pepper and the sugar bowl (I even venture to add vitamins, but place them in a glass jar for aesthetics sake, first) can be displayed nicely when not in use, and can easily be carried to and from the morning room, dining room or outdoor eating area.

3- In the dining room, a tray on the sideboard can anchor a swanky cocktail set. Or a fancy wine decanter and wine "tools". Or a collection of your grandmother's crystal...

4- In the living room, a tray can be used atop a table to showcase a small collection of whatever it is you collect. It can also showcase a mixed collection to create a tablescape- think of a small stack of books with a small bud vase and a few objects. Just lovely.

5- In the family room, a large tray can act as a table. Set it on the ottoman and you have a surface for drinks, snacks, or an area for display (see living room, #4).

6- In the bedroom, a small "valet" try can serve as a catch all for cuff links, watches, earrings, etc.

7- In the bathroom, a tray can house and display bath products on a ledge or on the vanity. Cologne and perfume look especially lovely grouped on a tray atop the vanity.

8- In the closet, several small trays can help with organizing accessories and jewelry. A bunch of small trays or tiny shallow bowls organized on one large tray looks really hip. You will want to organize your stuff if it looks that good after you do it!

9- In the office- tray it up! One linear tray can hold thumb drives, SD cards, iPods, wrapped up ear buds, etc. Its a desk lifesaver since it keeps place and is easily accessible throughout the workday. If you are into having all your supplies out on the desk, utilize #8 for your paperclips, rubber bands, sticky flags, etc.

10- In the garage or utility room, a sturdy tray can hold the dog leash, grooming tools, and plastic baggies for walks. All in one place, all the time.

You know that popular saying, "God is in the details"? Guess what...its true for great design, too. Read this editorial with "The Grande Gesutre" editorial from September 2007 (click here to read it).

Not only is great design derived from the Grand Gesture, (or, overall 'statement'), it is supported by the details that echo the big, broad brush strokes that are the Grande Gesture. Details can be built into the architecture and design itself, or they can be applied to an element of design. The little bits and pieces, the care of craft and design and the little extras, when done well, uplift and support the main idea. (However, when approached without restraint, they can quickly become too much!).

Designing down to the last layer, designing something unique for a client, taking something standard issue and customizing it, taking a common shape and reinventing it- all these things and more add depth and personality to a design. The details and "different-ness", either in arrangement, application of materials or actual design signal that a designers hand was in a project and that the client, therefore, values great design.

In designing timeless spaces for my clients, its sometimes challenging to walk the line of classic and current. That's where details come in. A guideline I use is to ask myself, "How can I elevate this expected shape or element into the unexpected?". In doing so, I am able to add detail and create a design that sets itself apart and also supports the Grande Gesture. Easy as pie, right?

-Janelle Steinberg, ASID Allied

Director of Design

J Steinberg Design

I'm going to outline this editorial in list form- because, really, all you need is the information! (And fast, its already December 9th!). Basic guidelines for classic Christmas decorating for the exterior of your house:

-Use classic white lights.  If you feel white is a little tired for your taste, use a single color (red, green) to maintain tradition while standing out.

-Use an appropriate amount of lights. Too much or too little, in essence, does the same thing- it looks bad. A guideline is to follow the architecture and roof line, framing windows and doorways and highlighting architectural features. As for the landscape, don't forget to light shrubs (and trees, if you wish).

-Do not use "lawn ornaments" or "roof ornaments". If you really want to, use them sparingly and set uplights on them. If you have lawn or roof ornaments, rotate them. Do not use them all at once. Sometimes these decorations are fun for kids. All that's needed is a little restraint.

-On the front door, hang a natural wreath of noble fir, douglas fir, evergreen, bay leaf, or boxwood. If you want to dress it up, wrap the top of the wreath with a red, gold or white wire ribbon bow (the contrast of white or gold against green looks nice from afar). Refrain from other distracting decorations on the exterior wreath.

-Natural garland of either noble fir, douglas fir, evergreen, bay leaf, or boxwood framing your front door not only smells wonderful, but looks very finished alongside your wreath.

-If you have the space at your formal entry, a pair of conical boxwood or coniferous topiary in cast concrete urns or metal pots (copper, oil rubbed bronze- depending on the style of your home) flanking the door will set off your entry. The symmetry will also lend a more formal look to your home.

-If you can, plant some red or white poinsettia in your landscape. Just take a mature, live plant and plant it, rather than keep it in a container. Lining a walking path or in flower beds are generally pretty safe yet visible places.  If you would rather not plant them, or if space does not permit, re-container them and arrange them as you see fit. In pots, ideal places are around water features, up stairs, along a walk way, etc.

-Don't forget how lovely it is to see from outside, the Christmas tree on the inside! Position a tree in a front-facing window for that quintessential view from the outside.

-If you have a gated entry to your house or estate, the wreath guideline holds true here, too. I suggest a pair of wreaths, one for each gate door or each gate post. Keep in mind that you will need a larger size to keep proper proportions.

-For the posts between your fencing, mount swags. For a more festive gate display, commission custom garlands and swags for the front perimeter of your estate's gate.

-Earliest to start decorating: the day after Thanksgiving. This goes for the interior Christmas decorations, as well.

-Latest to take down: January 3rd (and that's only because I trust you throw a smashing New Years party and need the 2nd to recover!). Its best to schedule your take down before the season gets into full swing. That way, it can't escape your mind to the point that the lights and decorations don't come down until spring.

-Things to generally avoid (there are always special situations and exceptions to the rule; however, think critically to determine if your house or estate falls into one of the two): window decals, blinking lights, fake snow, music on a loop, anything that may obstruct a view or disrupt your neighbors to the side or across the street, metallic "garland", the icicle lights that everyone now has, artificial wreaths and garland.

Unless you have been living in a cave for the last few years- you know what "Green" is (its been elevated out of mere colorhood). Green is literally everywhere. Its in magazines and commercials. Its slathered on every imaginable household product. Its the topic of conversation and news sources from here to high heaven (Mea culpa, by the way). Its the pet subject of the Architecture and Design field. Green is what you should be. Its what you should be buying. Its what you should be doing.

I think that Sustainability and Green platforms are very valid. However, with so much media saturation- it can be really hard for the average person to navigate this new world of green and white (rather than shades of gray, we now have shades of mint green and sea mist). What most people don't know, is that there are a lot of bona fide ways to institute green practices and purchases when building and designing a home. Here are ways that everyone can be green. These considerations are things that anyone can integrate into a construction or design project, regardless of style preferences (its not just for the modern folks!).

-Buy Quality Products. When you purchase something of great quality, you increase the longevity of that item. When you purchase an item that will become dated or wear out in a few short years, you increase waste by throwing out the old and you increase consumption by buying new again. Buying for the long term is earth friendly. In the long run, you also end up spend less on great quality because you don't have to replace it time and time again. Consider purchasing the best quality seating, carpet/rugs, and case goods your budget allows for.

-Use quality materials with longevity. When you are selecting surface materials, think longevity and quality. Use materials that are durable and will stand the test of time. Consider materials that won't look dated in the future. Not everything needs to be made from recycled materials to be considered green (in fact, a lot of the hottest "green" materials of today will look dated in the not too distant future). Using and properly maintaining natural stone for counter tops and flooring is, indeed, a green practice.

-Use Green building materials and systems. This is attainable when involved with new construction and additions. When you start a project, tell the architect or designer that you care about the siting and natural heating and cooling of your home. Also ask them to specify green materials (such as formaldehyde free plywood, recycled insulation materials, etc.) and green systems (HVAC vent placement, lighting, window planning, solar panels, etc.) . Green design features that are laid out in planning and green materials that are utilized during construction can be applied to ANY home style. Green building materials are also better for your health (one very important component to the Green movement).

-Buy a built home. When you can, strive to buy an already built home. It is estimated that for every new home, 2.5 tons of construction waste and materials are used. If you buy an already built home, you reduce waste and evade using new resources. This option is not always desirable, but its worth heavy consideration when you are planning on buying a home.

-Buy antique and vintage furnishings. This goes hand in hand with buying an already built structure. By buying vintage and antique furnishings, you prevent using new resources and also prevent the waste  associated with producing new furniture. Become familiar with local antique shops, tell them what you are looking for. If you are intimidated, hire a designer to walk you through the ins and outs of buying antiques. Its nothing to be afraid of! (Warning- it can become addicting!). Even people with modern tastes can think about integrating Bauhaus, Mid Century Modern, Art Deco or Post Modern vintage finds.

-Refrain from buying products that use endangered resources. Look for products that use reclaimed wood or other reclaimed materials. Avoid products that use endangered or rare species of wood, stone or metal. The definition of Sustainable is: "to provide for present needs without detracting from tomorrow". Use products that source not only from sustainable materials, but forests as well (contrary to popular thought, not EVERYTHING has to be bamboo!).

-Use low or no Volatile Organic Omissions (VOC) paint. Everyone uses paint. May as well use the healthiest option. See an archived blog about paint brands to learn about Benjamin Moore's line of green paint.

-Use natural cleaning products. Stop buying household brand cleaning products and laundry detergent. They are slowly degrading you and your family's health. Use basic cleaning methods and natural, fragrance-free products. Just because something has a little green logo or "seal of approval" doesn't mean its green. Read the ingredients. Do some homework. Go here for Green Cleaning tips.

-For more Green information for the home, visit these links:

U.S. Green Buliding Council

Green Building Supply

The Green Home Guide

Healthy House Institute

I grew up with a mother that loved Accent Walls. When I say "Accent Wall", I am referring to a room where only one wall is painted a color- and the other walls are left white. I'm not sure if it was the trendy thing to do back then, (in my defense, it wasn't all that long ago!), or if she was just afraid of using color in a more liberal fashion. Usually the wall to be painted was the wall with a focal point- the fireplace wall or the wall with the bed. She was always concerned with making our home lovely, which I give her credit for, but I grew to detest Accent Walls.

Now that I am an interior designer, I find that people still have accent walls! Once I get to the root of the preference, I find its usually due to fear of color and what that color might do to a room (the biggest worry is that it will be "dark" or "make the room look smaller"). I will say that Accent Walls have their place. Contemporary, modern and eclectic interiors lend themselves very nicely to the concept of accent wall color.

While I am still not a huge fan, here are some tips for executing a room with an Accent Wall, (should you choose to do one yourself):

-No matter the space, accent walls are best achieved where all the walls are painted a light or medium neutral color and the accent wall is painted a darker color that relates to the neutral or a bold color that contrasts with the neutral. Don't leave the other walls white.

-You have to be sure that every other element in your room coordinates (but isn't "matchy-matchy"!) and carries out the accent colors hue and value. If there is no thought of coordination and balance of color throughout the room, your accent wall will look like floating, unrelated color. Think about coordinating pillows, upholstery fabric and drapery.

-Think about putting a flower arrangement in your accent color somewhere else in the room. I like the spriggy florals that are out right now- lots of little blooms on long stems that arc softly downward. Stay away from expected arrangements that can look dated. If you are using a neutral or earthy color, do a stick or grass arrangement. Flowers and natural grasses are a great way to mix that accent color around.

Check out my blog post about paint brands I personally use and specify for my clients here.

-Janelle Steinberg BA, ASID Allied

Principal and Director of Design

J Steinberg Design

Have you thought about your coat closet lately? As you are reading this, what is the current state of your coat closet? You may even be drawing a blank, so let me remind you what the coat closet is. Its typically that small closet in or near the foyer or hall to your main living area. Its purpose is to store larger coats that you can grab on your way out of the house. More importantly, its also there to house guest's coats, jackets and sweaters when you host an evening of any sort.

To me, a small coat closet has the potential to be a real jewel box. It can be a bit of a surprise and serve as a pick me up each time you or a guest opens the coat closet in the foyer. Since its closed off, you can be wild with color, texture and pattern. You have the freedom to depart from your home's established design, or stick to the established design and be liberal with a lot of strong design elements in one place. Also, coat closets are tiny compared to other rooms in the home- so it doesn't really take much to punch it up.

Here are my guidelines for a smashing coat closet:

-The coat closet is an etiquette. Not only is it for your coats, but those of guest's when they arrive. This means keep it clear of other household junk! Leave room for your guest's stuff.

-Invest in two dozen quality hangers. Wood hangers not only look classy, but they are bulky enough to properly hang a heavy coat or jacket. Toss the plastic. Use the wood. Be sure to leave plenty of empty hangers for your guests! As an added touch, have your monogram or family crest hand painted on the hangers.  If you purchase cedar hangers, there is no need for a cedar block.

-For your female guests, provide a safe place for their handbags. Have you ever been to a gathering where the women tuck their handbags next to a remote living room chair or pile them in a heap on the guest bed? Don't make your guests do this- its uncomfortable for a women to leave her bag in a random place. In your guest closet, provide hooks or commission custom millwork for cubbyholes. Your female guests will marvel at your thoughtfulness and praise you as a genius. (As a tip for cubbyholes, each one should be big enough for a typical handbag or tote. You can even vary the sizes to ensure you have big enough cubbyholes for large and small bags alike).

-Paint or use a fabulous wall covering. You can be as "out there" or as conservative as you wish, but do finish the walls. Good suggestions are a dark or vivid color, a busy or textured wall covering, classy millwork or a combination of these options (for instance, wall covering on the bottom 3/4 and coordinating paint on the top 1/4 with a chair rail moulding where these two finishes meet).

-If you have the wall space, think about a pocket door. If your coat closet is gorgeous and organized, why not leave the door open? The pocket door allows you to close it off when you aren't hosting an event or when you don't want to see the inside.

-Install a flush mount or semi flush mount light fixture. Think about how you want the light to come on. Do you want to pull a chain once you open the door, or do you want the light to be on when you open it? You can create a new switch next to the outside of the door, or even think about a motion sensor. Either way, you need to be able to see once that door is open.

-If you need the shelf space above the rod, finish off the edge of the shelf with a moulding. Put large bins or baskets on the shelf for other items such as hats, gloves, or over sized bags. Or, you can remove the shelf if you want to, its up to you!

-Consider replacing the rod with a metal rod in brass, chrome, brushed nickel or a wood grain and stain. Or, paint a standard issue rod a coordinating color to mesh with the wall covering.

Knock your guest out with a highly functional and gorgeous coat closet. For a small investment in both time, materials and labor- you can create a gem of a space with fantastic design and decor features that will receive rave reviews from your guests for years to come.

-Janelle Steinberg BA, ASID Allied

Principal and Director of Design

J Steinberg Design

Living well encompasses so many aspects- more than the backdrop we designers create, more than the things we surround our clients with, its more far-reaching than that. Yes, Residential Interior Design is a key component of living well- but its not everything. Living well is a daily act. Its a conscious decision to be the best you can be and live the best you can every day. Living well is maximizing what you have and striving for better when you can. Its using everything you have and everything you are at the highest level.

I was recently on site with clients that are at the tail end of a full kitchen remodel. Anyone who has ever lived through a remodel can attest to the perils of a remodel situation. Though the project is nearing completion, there is much to be done. There's still plastic on the floor in surrounding rooms, crown moulding to be installed, painting to take place and the finishing touches such as knobs and pulls to grace the gorgeous new cabinetry.

Since it was an early evening appointment, my clients offered me a light meal of sandwiches. My favorite is peanut butter and jelly (although they laughed to hear my humble request, they agreed that a classic PB&J is, in fact, a great sandwich!). So, in the midst of remodel chaos, in the living room at the table that is normally in the kitchen, we ate sandwiches. My favorite part, aside from their gracious hospitality, was the fact that they put the condiments in cut crystal dishes. I can honestly say that I have never put peanut butter or jelly into a crystal serving dish. This is a new high in everyday fine living. In fact, its a new high in living well under distress (remodels have been described as torturous), and I loved it! These people "get" it!

This is just one example of living well. Here are a few ways to live well each day with means you already have:

-Utilize fabulous lighting every evening. Don't just reserve it for company! Lighting creates warmth, ambiance and lends comfort- use it! Put your ambient lighting on a dimmer switch if its not already, then adjust the lighting levels according to activity. Its amazing how much more relaxed you can be when the lighting is dim and very warm. You will enjoy your home more when its "glowing" correctly.

-Set your dinner table as you would for company. Use your linens and candlesticks. It takes all but two more minutes to set these items out and two more to break it down after dinner. Don't save these things for special occasions- every day should be an occasion.

-As mentioned, use your china! For morning cereal, for coffee...for pizza! Embrace it. Love it.

-Display fresh flowers in a gorgeous vase (or recycle a San Pellegrino bottle for a casual kitchen bud vase). There is something about real flowers, aside from the fragrance, that really perks up a room and causes a smile in passing. Fresh flowers trump artificial, hands down.

-Burn your candles. Get into the ritual of lighting them upon arrival home. The scent and warmth really make you feel cozy, and candlelight adds that extra sparkle to a lighting scheme. I have a handful of scents I burn throughout the year, changing the scents with the seasons. Further distinguish your home with a hallmark of warmth and subtle fragrance.

-Janelle Steinberg  BA, ASID Allied

Principal and Director of Design

J Steinberg Design

A knockout interior design encompasses many, many different components. From the floor plan to the lighting, finishes and accessories- everything must work in unison in order to create a memorable space. Its not enough to address one aspect of design and expect to achieve that "wow" factor. Every layer must work together. Every layer must be calculated, skillfully planned and designed or positioned on purpose. Even when great interiors look effortless- there is a huge amount of thought and reason behind every aspect of a finely finished space.

Enter the Grande Gesture. The Grande Gesture of a space is very important. Its developed by the interior designer via intuition and by information gathered from the client and their lifestyle. (In commercial design, the client's target market, business culture, product or a combination of these factors determine the Grande Gesture.)

Simply put, the Grande Gesture is the style, theme or concept of a design. Everything stems from the Grande Gesture. It must be carried out to the smallest detail and tastefully integrated into the large components of a design. Its one of those "hard to put your finger on it" definitions. And, when you hit the Grande Gesture jackpot, its also one of those "when you know, you know" feelings.

Great design must speak to the Grande Gesture at every level. Whether the Grande Gesture originates from the exterior architecture, the client's personality or the established design direction- it must be present at every turn. The best example is that of a focal point. We designers use focal points to draw attention, to feature something and, ultimately, to "wow". Everything else is supportive of that focal point, holds it up and reinforces that main feature. Its a balancing act resulting in design harmony.

Without a Grande Gesture, elements seem unrelated and choppy. Spaces may contradict themselves. A home will not flow. Styles will not blend or vibrate correctly. Lack of a Grande Gesture feels a little hollow, incomplete and half baked.

Go for the Grande Gesture. Figure out what you want to say by helping your designer when they (hopefully) ask you tons of questions and (hopefully) take tons of notes and (hopefully) think deeply about your project (a great interior designer will do these things!). A powerful Grande Gesture should be stated boldly and quietly repeated in the details to create a truly finished "wow" space.

-Janelle Steinberg  BA, ASID Allied

Principal and Director of Design

J Steinberg Design

I predict a brass revival. I'm not sure how long this revival will last, or how huge the movement will be...but I'm pretty sure its coming. One could argue brass never really left. In certain circles- brass till signifies tradition, quality and taste. You can still find a selection of brass hardware and fittings...if you know where to look. There is some brass that looks current (think rubbed brass)...if you know where to find it and how to use it.

By and large- its the chrome, nickel, stainless, and oil rubbed bronze (the current craze) in all their incarnations that take center stage, and have done so for awhile now. All appliances became stainless steel overnight- and its still popular for the mass market. The majority of fine jewelry and bridal sets have been set in platinum and white gold for awhile now- and its still popular for the mass market. I don't think we are "done" with the cool metals yet, since gray is proving to be a big color for 2009. But something is on the horizon.

As with all trends, when there is a major shift to one side- the other usually follows. And, when the once exclusive tastes/materials/looks are attained by everyone- the opposite will come into popularity and slowly trickle down to the masses.

I am slowly starting to see more gold in jewelry and accessories for the younger set (which is a sign that tastes are slowly changing). I've been noticing more brass and "gold tone" fittings on shoes, handbags and clothes. I'm starting to see more warm metal options for fine appliances. And, most importantly, I am starting to visualize using brass as the metal accent in some of the designs that dance around my head. The key is that brass has to be updated and inserted into todays Transitional design. And, the other key is attaining a client that wants to set a president and be ahead of the curve, a client that wants to do it before everyone else starts doing it (again).

The last time brass was popular was in the 80's. Think very traditional 80's decor....forest green carpet, oak cabinets, big floral fabrics, Austrian shades, frou-frou, and, brass. Brass chandeliers, brass knobs and pulls, brass lock sets, brass switch plates, brass bed frames....you name it- it was brass.

Now, take those same brass elements. Move them from your memory of home circa 1988, and into the fresh Transitional interior of today. Brass would not only set you apart, but lend utter refinement to an interior that is tailored and clean. Mix brass with the dark woods and white moldings of today and its almost Ralph Laurenesque- very high style Americana. Taking brass and putting it into a new context of Transitional interior design is the new frontier in modern day metals.

-Janelle Steinberg, BA ASID Allied

Principal and Director of Design

J Steinberg Design

Today I feel like waxing poetic about what I do. I want to write about the most exciting, personal and best part about possessing talent as an interior designer- and that is making a home unique.

The word "unique"...its often so overused when talking about interior design. Because of that, I am going to refresh your memory on what the word "unique" truly means. As defined by the Oxford American Dictionary, "Unique" means: being the only one of its kind; unlike anything else. Particularly remarkable, special or unusual. Belonging or connected to one particular person, group, or place.

To have a "unique" home is part of what every savvy home dweller strives for. Aside from comfort and function- we want to live in style! We want our homes to stand out, to be hospitable and welcoming, to be different than our friends and neighbors. We want our homes to feel good, look good and perform well (meaning, hold up through daily use!).

To me, more than anything else, a person's home reflects who they are. More than the clothes they wear, more than the car they drive, more than the address or city their home is located. Yes- homes are that powerful! To each and every person- home is the most important place in the world. Its the epicenter of their life. This is the reason I am a residential interior designer. Home is important, it means something to everyone, and its so enjoyable to tailor a "unique" home for each of my clients.

One of the most important parts of my role as a residential interior designer takes place at the very beginning. When I am "programming" the project. I break this up into two stages- the first is to take into consideration the needs of the project- what has to be in the project, specific elements/changes my client wants, functional requirements, code issues, etc. In the second stage, I address the style direction. The questions I have asked my clients about their lifestyle, their values, their recreational activities, their careers, their tastes and preferences, and their life in general, dictates what I like to call their specific "Style Formula" TM.

Its not enough for me when a client says they want a "Transitional" interior. I don't want to give them a generic, "model home" form of Transitional. I want their Transitional design to mean something to them! Its all the nook and crannies about my clients that dictate how I will design and create a distinctive style within a style for them. Color palette, major design features and the casual v. formal ratio of a design is heavily rested on the insights I skillfully gather from my clients by asking the right questions and observing other aspects of their lifestyle and mannerisms.

Its at this stage that a unique home is starting to develop. Its unique because it stemmed directly from my client. I akin interior style to multiple people writing an essay on the same topic. In writing, the topic is the same- but the thoughts, punctuation, tone and writing style is different in each essay. Its the same with interiors. The "topic" may be Transitional interior design- but the thoughtfulness, accents, formality and distinctive style is different in each Transitional interior.

In further stages of the project, mostly when the decorative objects and art are being selected, even more individual style is realized (all derived from the Style Formula TM, that I worked out previously). I do this by using meaningful accessories in the form of collections, heirlooms, valued objects...I bring these things to the forefront and they accent the style direction just like a good handbag accents a nice outfit. And, most importantly, these unique aspects define a home, make it special, make it different...make it, undeniably, theirs.

-Janelle Steinberg BA, ASID Allied

Principal and Director of Design

J Steinberg Design

The importance of a guest bedroom is often overlooked. It usually receives no design attention in terms of color or character. It’s the dumping ground for the desk you just can’t let yourself get rid of, an ages old bedspread, and a bedside table that is missing its counterpart. These bedrooms feel hallow and a little cold. We have all slept in a guest bedroom like this, and if you have one like this- you know who you are!

A good and proper host offers the best of everything to their guest. It’s quite a nice thing to do when you offer up your home, feed a person and entertain them free of charge. And, its quite another thing when you do this with style and grace- two aspects a lot of people fall short of in the overnight hosting department.

The goal is to create a guest suite, not merely a guest bedroom. A space so wonderful that it rivals a fine hotel, a space your guests wouldn’t mind living in full time. The intention is not to outdo your guest’s normal digs, but to provide for them a home away from home that is truly comfortable and full of details that illustrate hospitality and, most importantly, thoughtfulness.

In short, make the guest bedroom as wonderful as your own. If you would like more details, read on:

The Room: Blend the suite with the rest of the home. Incorporate your homes colors and use architectural details. The furnishings should coordinate, never a mish mash of leftovers and never “matchy-matchy” (in other words, no 5-piece sets!). This is a picky thing, but ensure the door is hung correctly and there isn’t a huge gap at the bottom- sound travels through gaps just as air does. Also, a lock on the door- especially if you have children, can do a lot to ease a guest while dressing and grooming.

The Closet: Don’t fill the closet with stuff you have no room for. The guest room closet should have an assortment of empty hangers, a luggage rack if space permits, an extra blanket, a throw blanket, two extra pillows, and a hanging cedar block. If you must use the guest closet for storage, ensure it’s organized, tidy and boxed up. Also, if you live in a warm climate- provide a fan. If you live in an arid climate- provide a humidifier.

The Lighting: Put the overhead lighting or other ambient lighting on dimmers (such as a pair of lamps). Provide bedside reading sconces on individual switches or a reading lamp and cozy chair.

The Bedding: Use the same quality (or better!) bedding as you do for your own room. Coordinating high quality natural fiber sheets are a must. Thread count, card and twist of the fibers are all equally important. Provide pillows- but not a truckload. Two back shams or Euros (oversized squares) and two sleeping pillows are all you really need. Put the down sleeping pillows on the bed and the down alternatives in the closet, in case a guest has allergies. Make sure the mattress is in good shape and comfortable enough to get a good nights sleep (testing it out once in awhile is a good idea!).

The Personal Touches: Stock reading material such as current magazines your guests might enjoy, your favorite books or a selection of current best sellers. Stock a few pencils and some notepaper. Stock bottles of water to prevent your guest from stumbling towards the kitchen or bathroom if they need a drink in the middle of the night. Provide a tasteful alarm clock- preferably a travel size (not the tech-y looking black-box sort). Stock earplugs in case of commotion, for whatever reason (lawn mower, crying baby, surround sound from the family room, plumbing noise- you are accustomed to your noise, guests aren't!). Put fresh flowers in a bud vase or small vessel at the bedside. Ensure blackout liner is used in the drapery backing.

Media: If you’re going to provide a television, provide a TV you would be happy to watch- don’t ditch the old goliath in this room. I am a fan of small to medium flat screens since you can literally put them anywhere due to their slim profile (wall mounted, on top of the dresser, etc.). Provide a DVD player, too. Stock a few of your favorite movies, some classics and a few new releases. If there are special instructions for how to work the media or the remote, print it out and have it laminated for guest reference. Media is nice to provide since everyone has different sleeping and waking habits- early risers have something to do until the rest of your house wakes up, and night owls can quietly watch while everyone else goes to sleep. There is seldom anything worse than being the only one wide-awake in a house that isn’t yours!

The Icing (for especially savvy hosts): Monogram your linens and towels. Provide stationary with your estate name and or family crest. Obtain four bedding palettes, one for each season (by the way, its okay to store the guest linens in the guest closet!). Prior to your guest arriving, create a gift box filled with little things you know they will love- a fancy bar soap, a pair of house slippers, a small candle, a map or guidebook of your area…and don’t forget to enclose a note wishing them a wonderful stay! Lastly, have on hand basic toiletries that one may forget to pack. Stash this “Just In Case” basket in the closet and let your guests know they are welcome to the contents should they need them.

As a host, you will get rave reviews for years to come. People will look forward to visiting, and, most importantly, people will feel welcome and comfortable in your home- and that is the ultimate result of hospitable entertaining!

-Janelle Steinberg BA, ASID Allied

Principal and Director of Design

J Steinberg Design

I was recently asked if putting a beer tap in a kitchen remodel would be tacky. The kitchen is a modern take on history (enough to make me weak at the knees), complete with soapstone countertops, a milky white and grey Carrera marble running bond subway tile backsplash and commercial stainless steel appliances. The tap in consideration was to be a stainless steel model, to match the appliances, of course. As an interior designer, this stainless steel business would normally matter to me, especially in a kitchen this beautiful; however, my reaction shocked me a little bit. Not only did I not care what finish or brand the homeowner had in mind, but the word “no” feel right out of my mouth like a loose lug nut from my brain.

Despite quite enthusiastic beer connoisseurs, personal taps just haven’t mainstreamed their way into the kitchen like the (now) standard issue wine chiller. Sure, you may have one in the game room, but to put one in the kitchen is a profound statement. And that is exactly why I favor the idea. Design is for you and your life. It’s those personal design elements that make your home memorable for others and give the greatest satisfaction to you, the homeowner.

Now, that’s not to say there isn’t an appropriate place for it. (Take, for instance, placement by the water faucet- can you imagine what type of statement that would make?). Incorporating fun elements in non-traditional places, such as a beer tap in the kitchen, is what makes design fun and rewarding. Trends start to surface when a homeowner breaks the mold, (or, lets their designer break the mold!), and when homeowners are willing to do things a different way. I’m not saying that world-changing design goes hand in hand with beer taps in the kitchen, but it is worthwhile- and a lot of times, that’s all that really matters.

Remember these two things: one, its always more fun to discover an element of surprise; two, design is most authentic when its personal, and rich with meaning. If those two truisms are considered, it’s impossible to be tacky. My best to you in life, love and luxury.

-Janelle Steinberg BA, ASID Allied

Principal and Director of Design

J Steinberg Design